Making a YES for real.

dsc01316These days, there are so many things, places, and people to draw inspiration from, learn from, and follow. When the world is going at an increasingly fast pace and the “so much to do, so little time” mantra remains unchanged, the attention we pay to various things speaks volumes about the true value it holds in our life.

As my attempt at keeping up with the world, I have notes, lists, post-its – on my phone, on my fridge, on my desk – for literally everything I want to remember, for fear that I will lose out on a nugget of wisdom or a future million-dollar idea. It can really be quite the struggle to scale back. At some point, there ends up being way too many notes on notes on post-its with alllllll the ideas and to-do’s to keep track of and no work to show for it.

So what is the whole point to begin with?

When I started this journey almost two years ago, my inspiration and hunger was coming from a very similar place as today. It was the year of the olympics (and a leap year too). The first church that Alex and I have found and loved in Boston was closing. Thankfully, we had one more chance to step inside Our Lady of Victories, marvel at its beautiful stained glass windows and its rich history with the The Victorian Society in America New England Chapter before saying goodbye. It was a lovely moment, pushing me to reflect upon the many changes that have happened in my life up to that point and what I felt it was leading me towards at the time.

There must be something about February.

It could just be the winter blues. Maybe it’s because the new year is not so new anymore and the struggle to keep “resolutions” up is too real. Or, dare I say it, perhaps its the realization that although time is infinite, a lifetime in it is only so finite. There will always be things to try, to gain, to lose, and yet there’s only so much of life to have and enjoy.

This February, it’s also the sense that lent is coming (it’s here!), and now more than ever, I’m feeling the urge to really work on faithfaith in myself, faith in others, faith in the world, and faith, most important of all, in God. The fact that the day of love this year can mean much more than the love we can see, feel, or ever give is exciting and a challenge. One I hope to step into with more intention and the support of those who wish to take part in it.

And so, here we are.

To a YES in my life that is at the core of it all. The yes that has been resting in me, sitting with me and now nudging me, prodding me, and moving me in ways I have yet to understand. I have a feeling I’m bound for something I’ve been searching for a long time. Sometimes, I’m learning, saying YES for myself means saying NO to some things in the short term in order to focus on the important things requiring my best efforts first.

If you’d like to join me or follow along, I am getting ready for the Best Lent Ever. It will be nice to have a friend through it all – just let me know!

Meanwhile, the regular Always al Fresco programming will be starting back up too! It was a difficult few months of work, studying, and test-taking claiming the front seat for a little bit, but hey, we’ve got some good stuff on cue here for you.

Tell me, how has your February been?

Wishing you a love-filled Valentine’s/Galentine’s/Palentine’s Day!

Thanks for reading!

x,

Valerie

PS – Alex surprised me with quite the Valentine this year, which helped tie everything together for me and really jumpstart this journey (below). Let me know if you’d like to see more of that or if you have any questions and other thoughts. Feel free to link up with your related post or favorite related links as well!

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Day Trip to Plymouth

For our anniversary this year and our first chance for a mini break for “spring” in New England (I add the quotations because that day hardly felt like we were over winter, which I suppose is very New England in itself), Alex and I made plans to take a little day trip out of the city and celebrate.

The fourth year is traditionally commemorated in fruit and flowers. We took our own little twist and went for fruit wine and the Mayflower instead. See what we did there? 😉

Plymouth fit the bill perfectly. A short 45-minute drive from Boston, it was a sweet escape, long enough for Alex and I to continue our discovery quest of New England as fairly new residents and close enough to give us room for spontaneity. We weren’t quite sure the weather would cooperate for a full historic experience to satisfy our inner nerdy tourists (which sadly, it didn’t), but we were quite pleased with how easy it was to fill our day there. Naturally, we plan to return for a more comprehensive tour.

We started with lunch at Dillon’s Local, a few steps from the central downtown strip. I enjoyed a Bloody Mary with our delicious meat pizza (read: duck confit and pork belly) while Alex went for their Cuban. Yum.

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Afterwards, we took a stroll down Water street hoping to catch a glimpse of the Mayflower. Though it was MIA that day, we did catch some other sights of Plymouth, and also some rays when the sun occasionally peaked through the clouds, much to our surprise.

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We found some of the lobsters sprinkled throughout the downtown area as part of the Plymouth Lobster Crawl, each very distinct and beautifully crafted.

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For an easy pitstop, just a hop and a skip away from the water was Plymouth Bay Winery. Pam greeted us right as we walked in and gave us a casual yet intimate tasting experience with Plymouth Bay’s selection of fruit wines and jellies. Their whole approach adds a healthy dose of fun to the craft and authentic opportunities for local partners to showcase what Plymouth has to offer. There was no way we could leave there empty handed; it was hard enough to narrow down our choices to a bottle of Cranberry Blush and Blue Sin jelly. So good.

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We took one last stroll before heading back to Boston, taking in the fresh air and all the memories that have brought us to that moment. Did I mention that Alex also celebrated his 2nd year of living in the city — thus beginning his love affair with Boston — this year?

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If there was only one thing that could prove that we made it to Plymouth, it was none other than finding Plymouth rock. And there she was. We have officially made it to America’s Hometown.

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What’s your favorite way to celebrate or escape for the weekend? Feel free to share your go-to road trip ideas or all-time favorite destinations below! And if you ever make it to Plymouth, I’d love to hear what made it to your must-see and must-do list!

 

Valerie


For more information, check the Plymouth Visitor Website at www.seeplymouth.com.

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Change is good

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Change is the only constant in this world. While it can be an unsettling thought, I have always found comfort in it, knowing that each and every one of us goes through a journey with many ebbs and flows.

With change, however, comes growth too. That’s why I do believe that change is good even when it comes unexpectedly or in unfortunate circumstances.

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